I'm losing control.

1 mai 2020
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It's been a weird and rough few months for the world as a whole. I wanted to take some time to sit down and check in with all of you in a way I haven't before. More of a one on one, how are you kind of talk. So I decided to start a series that I am calling MatChats, where we sit down and talk about more personal things. Today, I want to talk about how we all feel a bit like we are losing control of pretty much everything.
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Credits:
Writers: Matthew Patrick
Editors: Dan "Cybert" Seibert and Alex "Sedge" Sedgwick
Assistant Editor: AlyssaBeCrazy
Sound Editor: Yosi Berman
Sources:
goat.com.au/travel/here-is-a-list-of-things-which-are-way-way-more-likely-to-kill-you-than-a-plane-crash/
www3.nd.edu/~ghaeffel/Chambless&Ollendick(2002).pdf
psychcentral.com/news/2017/02/07/imaging-shows-cbt-restores-brain-structural-balance-for-anxiety-disorders/116147.html

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  • Forget Pep talks I'd rather have a Pat talk!

    Delila MorganDelila Morgan3 tundi tagasi
  • I love matt..........i just do. He makes his(everyone's) lowest point to teach us. He is dedicated to make the world not perfect but better. Keep it and we need you. Tnks

    Yohannes DesalegnYohannes Desalegn12 tundi tagasi
  • Jeez this mans life is like a mess he seems a 90 year old man with all his stories

    Milo TainowMilo Tainow2 päeva tagasi
  • I have the same fobia

    T.B.G The best gamersT.B.G The best gamers2 päeva tagasi
  • I feel so bad for MatPat

    PieRatsPieRats3 päeva tagasi
  • deep.

    Thomas GrahamThomas Graham3 päeva tagasi
  • matpat calling britain a foreign place was such an odd thing to hear as a british person

    ChrystlaChrystla3 päeva tagasi
  • He was sus of everyone? I dunno man red do be lookin kinda SUS also matpat sus

    APX Xmokh12APX Xmokh123 päeva tagasi
  • AMEN

    Bryce YoungBryce Young4 päeva tagasi
  • I’m not sure why, but this really hit home. I was balling my eyes out watching this video. It really shows me that people can be so much different than what you expect from behind the screen.

    chrqvity :Dchrqvity :D4 päeva tagasi
  • Is it scary that my characters have wings? I don’t think so, but maybe you might.

    Kool Kat KidKool Kat Kid4 päeva tagasi
  • So summer I was just born!

    Lawrence LarsonLawrence Larson4 päeva tagasi
  • Wow! 2006 I wasn't even born yet I was born in 2006 but I was born June 11. So that was a longtime ago.

    Lawrence LarsonLawrence Larson4 päeva tagasi
  • Ok I get that fear of flying, but imagine being that afraid everytime you go to sleep. No matter when or where. That's my life.

    כרמל הרץכרמל הרץ5 päeva tagasi
  • I live in London i-

    Joy EaterzJoy Eaterz5 päeva tagasi
  • Matpat should do ted talks, this is inspirational.

    aarav tooraarav toor5 päeva tagasi
  • i fail my tests and i don't care that mutch

    DAYANA SOFIA GUERRERODAYANA SOFIA GUERRERO5 päeva tagasi
  • I’m afraid of flying too, the reason is that I don’t particularly like the idea of falling out of the sky and crashing.

    Aaden ClarkAaden Clark5 päeva tagasi
  • you shouldn't be afraid of the pandemic you should be cautious around it but not scared where a mask to protect others and go ahead live your life, if your young then there is nothing to be scared of except spreading it to others but that's it

    Ilan SegalIlan Segal5 päeva tagasi
  • U did bro. U did

    Max ConstableMax Constable5 päeva tagasi
  • Yeah and im not a big fan of lockin myself in a giant metal tube in the air

    Mandalorian gamingMandalorian gaming6 päeva tagasi
  • 17:18 we are still waiting for that day...

    RaduRadu6 päeva tagasi
  • This episode speaks volumes 8 months into the pandemic. And I hope the mental damage isn't irreversible. Some nights I have crippling fear from nightmares of a crowded mall with less than 10% wearing a mask. I just wish it was over.

    Roy HeintzRoy Heintz6 päeva tagasi
  • joe keery?

    Josh BreitnerJosh Breitner6 päeva tagasi
  • At school, I joke around saying "This Virus won't do anything" I know I was lying. But at home, I was scared for my life of the virus, I still am. And now, I have a fever. I am even more scared now, and still try to make me feel better. But it's not working. After seeing this video, I feel better now. Thank you, Mat.

    Gaster the Old Royal Scientist.Gaster the Old Royal Scientist.6 päeva tagasi
  • I'm afraid of flights, but because I'm afraid of heights

    _ Shanetoe_ Shanetoe7 päeva tagasi
  • matpat: everyone is suspect Everyone: hey mats being super suspect there

    Liu GigiLiu Gigi7 päeva tagasi
  • Mat wont ride a boat right? But he enjoyed it so... haters be like... *𝘎𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘤*

    Liu GigiLiu Gigi7 päeva tagasi
  • I feel you, I am also deathly afraid of flying.

    Dovid LeffDovid Leff8 päeva tagasi
    • Same

      Naruto Uzumaki XD diamondNaruto Uzumaki XD diamond7 päeva tagasi
  • that dude had 40 flights since 2016 i had 4 in the last 18 years

    GlpdanGlpdan9 päeva tagasi
  • "Who's drinking tang?" *laughs in Filipino*

    Not Dual LimitNot Dual Limit10 päeva tagasi
  • i feal bad for you matpat, i can see why your anxiety kicked in

    amazing guyamazing guy10 päeva tagasi
  • wow im also uncontrobly scared of flying and i have never flown

    amazing guyamazing guy10 päeva tagasi
  • I can’t wait until Things get back two normal

    Chris SinghChris Singh10 päeva tagasi
  • I feel what you feel; ive seen this world grow ive seen you grow and im nauseous whenever i get on a plane i throw up and i cant control it but i still feel guilty you cant control everything i know that this world is chaotic its crazy and i have been through grief and 2020 is………… is just terrible i know that kobe died he was amazing and 2020 is chaotic but you have to accept you cant control everything Mathew

    APX Xmokh12APX Xmokh1211 päeva tagasi
  • On the bright side the vaccine they Made seems to be working

    Chris SinghChris Singh11 päeva tagasi
  • 12:51 remember kids life sucks if you have a bad day it will repeat over and over and if you get something good it will be taken away

    SabaKhazhomia 13SabaKhazhomia 1312 päeva tagasi
  • I want everyone to know is (sorry to all of those that are acquired about this topic) God gave us these fears. think about it.

    Sitex Thereal1Sitex Thereal112 päeva tagasi
  • Ummmmm yea I am Definitely not going on a flight EVER

    Lava Creep558Lava Creep55813 päeva tagasi
  • The 7,041 people who disliked are people who are kids who don't understand of what he went though and how sacred he is

    SirPeter_ TheFurrySirPeter_ TheFurry15 päeva tagasi
  • I'm actually British and I fully think that the best foods come from other countries

    james nigel driffieldjames nigel driffield15 päeva tagasi
  • Lol I’m in England and I don’t even like the cuisine that much. 😂

    BoxHead doodlesBoxHead doodles15 päeva tagasi
  • your basically playing among us in that plane everyone was sus

    among usamong us16 päeva tagasi
  • Mat you should lose the battle.

    The KurganThe Kurgan16 päeva tagasi
  • Strange as it may seem, not all Brits eat mushy peas and drink tea and crumpets. Mind blowing, eh? The more you know.

    ZeroF91 GGZeroF91 GG16 päeva tagasi
  • we should start calling him madpat

    ioseph stalinioseph stalin16 päeva tagasi
  • Teachers: You can change the world Me: *I know very well what you mean*

    Duskwave The Sandwing Nightwing hybridDuskwave The Sandwing Nightwing hybrid16 päeva tagasi
  • you know about the planning flight thing? Like multiplying the dates, making sure it is not 08/08/08, etc I CAN RELATE, I'm serious. I avoid 6, I avoid evens, I avoid 3 numbers in a row, I avoid 3, I avoid friday the 13th, I avoid NEMBERS THE SCARE ME. The fear of numbers is called *arithmophobia* . And it scares me. I also do the multiply numbers thing. Not only that, but your aerophobia is causing your arithmophobia. Fear of flight AND fear of numbers is scary.

    Duskwave The Sandwing Nightwing hybridDuskwave The Sandwing Nightwing hybrid16 päeva tagasi
  • this video has put me off flying. wait no it hasn't if your scared someone will explode the plane just don't go on at all bring an elytra

    Dekotah ChappellDekotah Chappell16 päeva tagasi
  • We as humans are completely out of control, and it terrifies us, and it’s just, it’s not a good realization to have

    Noble SixNoble Six16 päeva tagasi
  • ... heliflopter, I’m sorry, I truly am, I just love heliflopters

    Salt MarieSalt Marie17 päeva tagasi
  • I have the same problem..... but it’s with the virus my great grandma got it and died (I live with my mom, dad, brother, grandma, grandpa)..... I now stay away from people and if I see a crowd I freak out.......

    Foxen’s Fnaf WorkshopFoxen’s Fnaf Workshop17 päeva tagasi
  • we need to take coronavirus as a lesson not as a massive threat. I mean it is but once it's over. We need to act accordingly to threats like this in the future so that they don't create such fear. if we take this as a lesson we can do so much to help ourselves in the future if we can just learn from our mistakes. and Plague Inc.

    Meem MahnMeem Mahn18 päeva tagasi
    • also thank the f****** universe for deleting tik tok

      Meem MahnMeem Mahn18 päeva tagasi
  • This is among us plane edition

    Da Duck YTDa Duck YT18 päeva tagasi
  • Matpat would make an amazing us Marshall lol

    Richie SantanaRichie Santana18 päeva tagasi
  • ‘If it wasn’t for Stephanie, I would still be in Amsterdam.’ High as a kite

    Fishing pole studiosFishing pole studios18 päeva tagasi
  • Do NOT watch this after watching the Ronnie episode

    Fishing pole studiosFishing pole studios18 päeva tagasi
  • what I heard: "we are currently afraid of corona virus" + "best way to overcome fears is exposure therapy." well if Mat says so! :P

    Will EmsWill Ems19 päeva tagasi
  • Mid November 2020 I'm commenting this. I'm so fearfuk because I'm failing in college because of the reformatting after having been a successful student. I needed this, thank you for sharing MatPat.

    Mitch NyaradyMitch Nyarady20 päeva tagasi
  • Dude I drink tang all the time 😂

    Brennan LongboatBrennan Longboat20 päeva tagasi
  • exposure therapy does work because I used to be super afraid of the dark and horror stuff and then got FNAF and I don't really mind the dark anymore and horror does not scare me like it did before.

    Lily MustoLily Musto20 päeva tagasi
  • I was afraid of riding a plane even tho i havent set foot on a plane

    GreenflamesGreenflames20 päeva tagasi
  • I mean everyone dies one day and if that was the day for you I guess, go with it unless you could somehow prevent it

    Abdul MuhayminAbdul Muhaymin20 päeva tagasi
  • I am British and mushy peas are revolting 🤮

    John DalyJohn Daly21 päev tagasi
  • Waaaaaaaaaaaaa😱😱😱😱😱😱😱

    Cal LCal L21 päev tagasi
  • matpat: talking about serious danger. comment section: *M E M E*

    odd. I didn’t know I was cold.odd. I didn’t know I was cold.21 päev tagasi
  • this is all so relatable oh my

    Akshaj GodaAkshaj Goda22 päeva tagasi
  • I see now why you are scarred of planes specifically flying

    FloppyDoesStuffFloppyDoesStuff22 päeva tagasi
  • When I first saw the title I thought EEworld was retaking over his channel so he was going to quit. PLZ. ONLY QUIT EEworld IN YOUR LATE 60 FOR RETIRING

    Kyle nunya biznussKyle nunya biznuss23 päeva tagasi
  • The people who disliked are the anxiety in MatPat

    TikTheAlphaTikTheAlpha23 päeva tagasi
  • 2:04 *Sad british noises*

    TikTheAlphaTikTheAlpha23 päeva tagasi
  • 17:10 That didn't age well.

    Jon McCreadyJon McCready23 päeva tagasi
  • Trust me mate. I have a deathly fear of flying in a commercial airline too, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same way.

    Anthony J MoravetzAnthony J Moravetz23 päeva tagasi
  • This video shows how transparent he is with his fans , most EEworldrs would not talk about their fears .

    Alex PuttAlex Putt23 päeva tagasi
  • I feel what he is feeling and thats whu in scared of flying on a plane

    chicken nuggiechicken nuggie24 päeva tagasi
  • I have a Massive fear of Heights. I dont know why but I am. I kinda wish this helped but I don't do a whole lot of things. Something youve done name it i probably maybe not have. But i know that my fear doesnt have ANYTHING to do with control. I strongly doubt it because well its heights. You can change that. Infact I've never thought about controlling that. I just look up at them and I tremble. I feel like they could crash at anymoment. Falling from them is bad aswell. Not necassarily pain but more of just plain fear. Of course there is probably more to it but i dont know that yet. While this video didnt really help me i hope it helped you.

    CheesyCharlotteCheesyCharlotte25 päeva tagasi
  • #matpat therapy time

    Arbie coArbie co25 päeva tagasi
  • I'm so sorry you had to go through that, we love you so much MatPat and it hurts to see you like this:(

    Eyal TzadokEyal Tzadok25 päeva tagasi
  • Oh mY crap why did i watch this video it reminds me of my friend who.. we lost to irans missile

    BronsonMoniasBronsonMonias25 päeva tagasi
  • You made me worrie more

    Fraggrenade ThrowerFraggrenade Thrower26 päeva tagasi
  • HAHA!! HE MADE A SONIC 06 JOKE!!

    Haxorus playsHaxorus plays26 päeva tagasi
  • It's okay dadpat 😁

    ivy robloxivy roblox26 päeva tagasi
  • The one thing to bring in mind is CONTROL IS ILLUSTION

    Eric JonathanEric Jonathan26 päeva tagasi
  • this gave me a plane phobia :( but the video is good

    OrlandotheknightOrlandotheknight27 päeva tagasi
  • Hey Matt (and Steph!!)--just wanted to say thank you. I've had your videos playing in the background all day today and when this one came up the message really hit me hard. I've been having rougher couple days than is usual for right now (since EVERYONE is pretty much having a rough time currently), and I got a little teary-eyed at the end there. About fighting this hard and this long and living your life. Thanks for all you guys do--I don't think I'll ever be able to put into words how much your content brightens my day and gets me through the hard times, just by giving me something fun to focus on. You guys are the best ❤

    Vovin VritraVovin Vritra27 päeva tagasi
  • i give you hug. take hug.

    GlichyMapleGlichyMaple27 päeva tagasi
  • MatPat: "Who's drinkin' Tang?" Me who loves drinking Tang: *why are you asking me?*

    Da DudeDa Dude27 päeva tagasi
  • 6:16 sound like amount us. Everyone sus

    Your Kids OTYour Kids OT28 päeva tagasi
    • Amoung us

      Your Kids OTYour Kids OT28 päeva tagasi
  • I remember in January, I wouldn’t watch the news because I wanted to pretend that coronavirus didn’t exist. That it would never affect me personally. 2020 said to me, “HA! You thought you could ignore this?”

    A Random ArtistA Random Artist28 päeva tagasi
  • I'm scared of the things that are in the dark

    cheese mancheese man28 päeva tagasi
  • Good lesson, gracias matpat

    Master JamesMaster James28 päeva tagasi
  • Matpat I am sorry

    Gage JonesGage Jones28 päeva tagasi
  • To get control something is to accept there is no such thing as control. The only thing that you can control is YOU. If it's your time to go, it's your time to go. I'm not saying you can't be nervous, it's human. But live your life. Live everyday like it's your last. But be smart too.

    Mason QuaintanceMason Quaintance28 päeva tagasi
  • Thank you so much for the advice

    Cohen’s Stop motion and gamingCohen’s Stop motion and gaming28 päeva tagasi
  • The people who disliked are the terrorsits making multiple accounts and disliking.

    Shamsa BilshalatShamsa Bilshalat28 päeva tagasi
  • I'm afraid of flying now too, considering that was how my dad died.. Edit: I try to control every aspect of my life now, as I'm afraid of dying. Sometimes it feels as if I don't want to go to sleep.. fearing I wouldn't wake up. It's so.. scary... when I have to try my best to relax. But it's not as easy as you think, because.. when you try to control everything.. you realize.. most things you do, you can't control.

    The Man Behind the SlaughterThe Man Behind the Slaughter29 päeva tagasi
  • Hey, feel free to tell us these things. We are here for you matpat. Telling us your fears and how you decide to live gives us insight into who you are. We then get to know you better.

    Michael Loves LEGOSMichael Loves LEGOS29 päeva tagasi
  • I feel so sorry for you

    Gacha ForeverGacha Forever29 päeva tagasi
  • "Come fly with us, come die with us"

    Ankan5000 Boing.Ankan5000 Boing.29 päeva tagasi
  • We tried but we couldn’t save him...music made him loose control

    3Dwaffle 3Dwaffle3Dwaffle 3Dwaffle29 päeva tagasi
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